Thursday, February 25, 2010

Another Update on Jadyn...

I received an email from Ann at Red Thread last night and she has already received some information from the orphanage on Jadyn - we are getting so excited to travel so we can meet and hold this precious little child! They sent her three pictures; two of which we had already received, but here is another new one:



They also sent Ann the following information:

height :62cm
weight :7.5kg
head :42cm
chest :44cm
feet :9cm
teeth:8 (up4,down4)

Liu Bi (Jadyn) lives in Gui Yang !

I Googled some information on this city and found - Guiyang City, capital of Guizhou Province is located in the southwest of China, on the eastern side of the Yungui Plateau. It is said that in ancient times, Guiyang was surrounded by dense bamboo groves and was famous for producing a musical instrument known as a Zhu. Hence the city is known also as Zhu.

Guiyang is one of China's Spring Cities like Kunming . The climate is often mild and moist, neither extremely hot nor very cold. Spring, summer and autumn are the best seasons for visiting Guiyang.

Right now, the temperatures seem to be ranging from a low of 50 degrees at night to a high of about 80 degrees during the day.

Here are some more pictures from the city and province:

Guiyang City


Guizhou Minority Girls


Guizhou Local Traditional House


Skyline of the City

Wednesday, February 24, 2010

Wow! My head is spinning…

I have been busy trying to accomplish a lot of things in the last few days. I had to complete some paperwork so that they can begin Jadyn’s adoption paperwork in China. I have completed visa applications for Jerry and me (three times over). I have ordered a care package for Jadyn through Ann at Red Thread (love her!) and she has already requested updated information and pics for us through the orphanage, but she said that the orphanage is crazy slow so we are not sure how long it will take. I wrote a letter to Jadyn’s foster mother to send with the care package and Ann will translate that so I hope to get some of my questions answered. I did send a SASE so she could send a reply or maybe we will just receive it when we travel, we’ll see.

I have compiled my packing list (mostly going off of my cousin’s – thank you Anne! (CheeseinChina) and am trying to cross items off accordingly. Jerry and Justin are actually on a mad shopping trip today to get much of it done. I have been reading up on all of the travel tips that I can get my hands on – and, I just found out that there is a trade fair in China that begins on April 15! This is not good news for us unless we can be in and out of there by then. Now, I know why many of the flights are starting to fill up in early April. The costs for travel and accommodations will skyrocket due to the trade fair, if we are lucky enough to find any. Hopefully, our TA (travel assignment) will come next week and we can book our flights – please keep your fingers crossed for us!

Wednesday, February 17, 2010

Updated Information...

We received updated measurements and two updated pictures!!!

height: 62cm, weight: 7.5kg, head: 42cm, chest: 44cm. So she is just about 2 ft, and weighs about 16.5 lbs (note - this weight may be while fully clothed).

Here are the updated pictures from 2/8/10 - I believe the first picture is with her foster mother; this will be a treasured picture!



Tuesday, February 16, 2010

The Invisible Red Thread…

"An invisible red thread connects those destined to meet, regardless of time, place, or circumstances. The thread may stretch or tangle, but never break." - Ancient Chinese Proverb

We received Jadyn’s translated medical report yesterday which included the meaning of her name – Chen, Liubi “jade” (Chen is the surname and Liubi is her first name) – we were so surprised to see that her Chinese name means Jade; we decided on the name Jadyn a little over three years ago!

Her full name will be Jadyn Liubi Sinjakovic

The report also stated that she has been in foster care since August 3, 2009. We are very happy to know this as she has most likely been receiving very good care and has been able to bond to a particular caretaker. It will be difficult for her to leave that caretaker to be placed with us and we are understanding and prepared for that transition.

The notes regarding her personality state that she likes to giggle, likes sound toys, especially drum bell, likes to be carried walking, likes music and dances with beats.

Everything appears to be healthy and we are preparing to send a care package to her and the foster family. Hopefully, we will receive an update on her in the near future!

Thursday, February 11, 2010

Her Bedroom...

I know I've been away for a few days, but it has been a busy few days:) It was a painting marathon over the weekend because we both wanted to get Jadyn's room done. It felt so good to finally work on it and see it come together. Now, we just need our little girl!

I started painting on Friday night at 6 p.m. after we got back from our trip to Portage to pick up our referral packet. I went until midnight when I ran out of purple paint. It was a good thing that I ran out or I may have stayed up all night to get it done!

Saturday morning we ran a couple of errands and picked up more paint, then I got to work, with more of Justin's help, at around 1 p.m. and we worked until about 10:30 p.m. I only had one small section of a pink stripe left to complete on Sunday. Saturday night Jerry, Justin, and Brandon put together the crib, dollhouse bookshelf, vanity table and stool, hung the pictures, butterflies, and placed the applique (which you really can't see well above her crib) that reads "Such a Big Miracle in Such a Little Girl".

We had a great time working on the room; our two little guys, Ryan and Colin, even wanted to get in on the painting. They were determined to help with their sister's room! I have to get some new curtains since the bedding set only came with one valance and I bought it about 3 years ago, so I know I will not be able to find another valance. I think some shear curtains tied back would look nice, too!

Here are a couple of pictures; although, the colors are not really true to life:



Thursday, February 04, 2010

Here She Is...







Name: CHEN LIU BI
Birthdate: 7/18/09
Currently residing at the SWI of Qiandongnan Region, Guizhou Province

Words do not describe the joy we feel; we are so in love with her already and can not wait to hold her in our arms!

We Have A Daughter!!!

OMG!!! I just got the call from our social worker and she confirmed that we have a daughter! The only other thing I know is her birthdate is 7/18/09 - she is only 6 1/2 months old!

Wow! I am totally shaking right now!!! It's a Happy Day!!!


A Little Information...

Jerry called the social worker this morning, who told him that the package had arrived at the agency in Minnesota, and there were five referrals received. However, she could not confirm that our referral was one of the five...SERIOUSLY???

I am on pins and needles right now!!!

Anyway, she said that she would probably be seeing us sometime today or tomorrow.

I know...that is not much information, but that's all I know for now. Hoping to hear more soon!

Thanks to all of you for your love, support and kind words of encouragement - we do appreciate it!

Wednesday, February 03, 2010

And Still We Wait...

I spoke to our social worker late yesterday afternoon and she didn't have any information to share with me. Apparently, the process goes something like this:

Minnesota agency receives packet - sends to our agency in Portage after translation - our social worker calls us when she has it in hand and says to come in and see our precious little one's face. Our agency is about an hour and a half away from where we live and I just started a new job a little over 5 months ago so I'd like to give them a little bit of notice that I will need time off and when. Jerry is a police officer and he just can't leave without coverage for his shift - I explained this to the social worker and she said that she would email the main agency in Minnesota to try to find out what they know so that we can prepare to take off of work to come to the agency and pick up the packet. THIS WAS YESTERDAY AT 4PM...I STILL HAVE NOT HEARD FROM HER!!!

A few more of my April buddies are getting their calls today which makes me so happy! Although, I know that there are still a couple of us waiting for news and it is getting more and more difficult with each passing day; we just continue to try to support one another.

Especially, since I haven't heard from my social worker to say that the agency in Minnesota even received the package yesterday via FedEx. That means, that it may not get to them until today's delivery, then they have to do their 'thing', and FedEx it to my agency in Portage (probably going out Thursday) which means it probably won't get to Portage until Friday- YIKES!!! I'm not sure I can hold on that long! I'm going to go bananas!!!

Tuesday, February 02, 2010

Still Waiting...

We are still waiting to hear something from our agency. I must say that it is getting difficult as I have seen many of my April buddies post their information - I am extremely happy for them, but a little bit of me has always had a fear that something would go wrong and we would be overlooked. That just seems to be the way the last 5 years have stretched out to be. I even called my social worker before Christmas to verify that our LID was in fact 4/4/06 - just to be sure - and she assured me that it was...so why am I feeling more nervous than excited???

I just want the darn phone to ring!!! Until I hear it from her that we have been matched I just can't let myself go there!

I'm trying to focus on work and it's probably a good thing that I am here today or I'd be going crazy at home!

Not so patiently waiting anymore....

Monday, February 01, 2010

Referrals Arriving in Europe...

Wow...things seem to be moving fast, but that is alright by me!

RQ just updated her blog to state:

February 1st, 2010
I have a report that referrals have landed in Europe.

I do not have reports from any U.S. agencies that they have something on the way. Normally, the U.S. agencies have checked by now and have let their families know whether a package is on the way, and when it is scheduled to arrive.


Now, we just have to wait for them to hit the U.S.

We've Been Matched!!!

According to the Rumor Queen website:

R5 – April 5th
February 1st, 2010

We’ve got seven agencies confirming the cut off date as April 5th. I believe that calls for an R5.

Congrats to those families included in this batch!!!


If you expect to be in this referral batch and you’d like to share your blog with us, please include blog name and blog URL in the comments to this post. Also, if you are in another program and would like to share your news, please share your blog URL and blog name in the comments.

I do not see any agencies saying when they expect referrals to arrive.


We are so very excited knowing that our daughter has been matched to our family! Now, the difficult part is waiting for that phone call!

Ring...Phone...Ring!!!

Thursday, January 28, 2010

A Few More Rumors...

Well... According to the RQ site - A few agencies are starting to talk about referrals. One is saying they are “about to start matching”, another is saying they think referrals will arrive next week.

I’m not seeing anything that tells me agencies are hearing cut off information.


Amazingly, I have been very peaceful over the last couple of weeks; I've tried not to think about this too much. However, if I said it wasn't one of the first thoughts to cross my mind when I awoke I'd be lying and if I said I didn't think about it nearly 1,000 times a day, I'd be lying, but I haven't had that 'anxious' feeling.

After reading today's post though, I am starting to get a little excited - the thought that our paperwork will soon be in the hands of someone who will make the decision to match our daughter with our family seems a little surreal.

Here's keeping our fingers crossed that next week is the week...

Monday, January 25, 2010

No New Rumors...

Bummer...There are no rumors floating anywhere! This leads us to believe that it will definitely be early to mid February when we see our daughter's face, but we know that she will definitely be worth it!

Just a reminder that the CCAA will break for Spring Festival around February 12th so we estimate that this is the latest that they would ship the next batch of referrals. Until then, we will wait:)

Where is that stork????

Sunday, January 10, 2010

How The Matching Room Works…

Well, since the CCAA will be looking at our file any day to match us with our daughter/sister, I thought it would be good to post some information on how the matching room works. This excerpt is from the Rumor Queen website and is written in her words:

First, they review the baby dossiers and make sure there are no issues with them. We are told that they then count up all of the baby dossiers that are eligible for matching that month and then look to see how far this stack will go in the parent dossiers without sending out a partial day, and they pull all of those parent files. That is the likely cut-off date. Sometimes something happens and they don’t get this far. Sometimes something happens and they get farther.

Next they match orphanages up with agencies. This orphanage has six babies, this agency has six families. These two orphanages are in the same province and have a total of 12 babies, this agency has 12 families. When they are through with this is when (I believe) some agencies start to get information about the cut-off date. Or at least it is when they used to start getting information.

And then they start matching individual babies to individual families. At some point during this part of the process most agencies used to hear from their person in the matching room to let them know how many referrals they will be receiving and from what province(s). Some agencies shared this information with their clients. Some chose not to. Recently I’ve gotten the feeling that many agencies are still getting this information but they are being given orders by the CCAA to not share this information with the families.

Just as in the review room, each matcher is assigned certain agencies and is responsible for communicating with their agencies. Some matchers tell their agency the cut-off date, some matchers tell their agency “you have X number of referrals arriving”, some matchers give their agency a list of that agency’s families that will be receiving a referral. And some matchers don’t say anything at all to their agencies.

The next question that comes up is generally how the matchers match families and babies. I’ve heard from several people who have had the opportunity to speak with someone who works in the matching room. The various conversations seem to all agree that they first look for something that stands out: a matching birthday, a baby who looks a lot like a parent, or a baby who likes music and a parent who teaches music. Several matching people have stated they match by bone structure of the baby’s face and the parent’s faces (this is why they need our passport photos, so they can compare our mug shot with the baby’s mug shot). Some have stated that they used Chinese astrology, also. Once they’ve matched the obvious matches they then start to look at things like age of child requested. The age requested is not a priority for them, they feel they are matching families and not filling orders. And I have to say that they’ve done a wonderful job matching us and our Big Girl, and now I trust they will do an excellent job matching us with her little sister.


Well, hopefully, that gives you some idea of how we will come to know the child that will become our daughter/sister. We are getting anxious now that our time is near and are eager to see any sign of matching rumors to be posted!!! Take care and we will be in touch!

Sunday, January 03, 2010

One Last Curveball…

Well, we were thrown one last curveball on Christmas Eve when it was announced that China matched dossiers with Log In Dates through April 3, 2006. As you know by now, our LID is April 4, 2006 so we missed this batch by one day –

CCAA Status

Reviewed through:
February 29, 2008

Placed through:
April 3, 2006


That would have been one sweet Christmas gift, but after feeling a little disappointed we realized that it is all good since we know that we will be included in the next batch – yeah!

The one question remains as to when that next batch will arrive – for that answer we searched the Rumor Queen site yet again…

If we were to look purely at numbers then the soonest we’d expect to see referrals would be Friday, January 22, the latest would be Thursday, February 18, and the most likely date would be Monday, February 1. And most months that’s all we need to do for the When post, look at raw numbers. But not this month, this month there is more to consider. We need to take CNY into consideration.

If the CCAA is going to mail a batch on or around February 12, then that could possibly mean we aren’t likely to see another batch until somewhere around that date. But by the time they arrived that would be a 48 day interval. Could they do two 24 day intervals? It’s possible, sure. Should we hope for it? I think we should keep the possibility of both scenarios in mind and not get too attached to either. I think our best window in this case is that the next batch will arrive either around Wednesday, January 20 or Monday, February 15. (Give or take a few days, obviously). Unless the CCAA is no longer going to be concerned about clearing their desks before Spring Festival. Which, with a new director, is possible. But Spring Festival is a really big deal, and one of the important traditions around Spring Festival is cleaning up, so you come back to a new start.

Sunday, December 06, 2009

Projections...

Well, as I stated in my last post, I felt fairly confident that we will be in the next batch of referrals – and now I feel even better after seeing the data on Rumor Queen’s website. As you know by now, our LID (log in date) is April 4th and she is predicting that the CCAA (China Center of Adoptive Affairs) will get through April 5th with the next batch of referrals – Woohoo!!!



The next big question is when??? Here is what Rumor Queen has to say about that –
The last 12 referral batches arrived at 37, 36, 18, 24, 39, 32, 47, 30, 32, 31, 52, and 51 day intervals.

The average is 36 days, and the median is 34 days. The shortest interval is 18 days and the longest is 52.

But, if we look at the last six months then the average is 44 and the median is 43.

We’re told the 52 day interval was because no one was in the office to sign referrals, and the 51 day interval was because of the change in directors. It occurs to me that the SN list was put out December 1st, and that the referrals were signed and mailed on the 1st as well. I realize the “they’ve used up their quota for the fiscal year and have to wait until December to issue any more” thing is just rumor, but with both programs being held back until December 1st, it does make one wonder.

Why is the reason these batches were held back important? Because we’re trying to figure out if we can expect the next batch to arrive in 30 days or in 50 days. If the reasons for the 47, 52, and 51 day batches are no longer an issue, then perhaps we can go back to shorter intervals. But, if those long batches are due to something else (another way to slow IA, or a slowing because of H1N1, or some other reason entirely) then it’s possible the longer intervals are here to stay. As usual, only time will tell.

Our window is now huge: Based on the last twelve months, referrals should arrive sometime between Monday, December 21 and Friday, January 29.

Based on the last six months the window isn’t as big, but I’m going with the last twelve months because I think we also have to consider Chinese New Year at this point in time. I think we need to remember that there is a possibility the CCAA is going to start looking at a time frame between now and then so they can get referrals out just before they leave for their holiday. Spring Festival is February 14, and I believe the official holiday is going to fall from February 13 to 19. If they are going to mail a batch on or near February 12 (not a sure thing, but a fairly good probability) then we have 73 days between December 1 and February 12. Divide that by two and the next mailing would be somewhere around Wednesday, January 6 (to arrive the 7th or 8th). If we divide it by three we get 24 days, which would put the next mailing somewhere around Christmas Day. So, are we going to get 24 day intervals, 36 day intervals, or one huge 73 day interval? I think it depends on the reason for the previous delays. Three approximate 24 day intervals are quite possible, but based on previous months we should probably hope for two approximate 36day intervals.

And to be clear – those two 36 days could turn into (for example) a 30 day and a 43 day – they likely will not divide them equally.

Normally I give a “most likely” date, but I’m not sure we can do that this month. If they were holding off until December because of the whole fiscal-year-ceiling-thing then it’s possible we will see the next batch come at the end of December. But if we’re seeing these longer intervals as the new norm then we’re more likely looking at the end of January.

We know the CCAA employees prefer to get referrals out before their new year so they come back to clean desks, but with a new director in place we don’t know for sure that this is what will happen.

Tuesday, December 01, 2009

An Update And….Are We Next????

China has now officially matched through March 31st 2006 – YEAH!!!

CCAA Status

Reviewed through:
February 29, 2008

Placed through:
March 31, 2006


Now, the big question is will they get through April 4th with the next batch? April 1st and 2nd are a Saturday and Sunday and they typically have minimal paperwork that is logged in on weekends. In fact, according to the polls on Rumor Queen, there are a total of 3 people logged in on those days (please keep in mind that this is only a snapshot of the adoptive community), but it provides a consistent analysis by which to estimate. April 3rd reflects 22 people and April 4th reflects 21 people. I honestly can not recall China only doing a one day batch of referrals so I do anticipate that they will get through April 4th with the next batch, but I say those words with the greatest amount of caution as nothing in this process has gone as expected.

We can anticipate the next batch to come sometime in the next 4 to 8 weeks. Until then, we will be keeping ourselves busy with the activities of the holiday season:) I have plenty of gifts to buy and wrap, cookies to bake, and decorating yet to do – especially in Jadyn’s room!

We will keep you all posted as we hear any news! Happy Holidays!!!

Friday, October 23, 2009

Another Update And The Next Prediction…

Well, the October batch of referrals began arriving on October 12th and they went through March 28, 2006. This batch of referrals covered 4 days worth of paperwork (the last batch of referrals went through March 24th). The month of March is nearing completion and then they will finally move into April. You will see by the estimates below that we should expect to receive Jadyn’s referral in December and travel will be 6-8 weeks after. I am trying to keep busy to let the time pass by - I have purchased just about everything we need for her bedroom except the paint, but I have the colors picked out. Now, I just need to find the time to paint. I think I will try to tackle that project Thanksgiving weekend. It will be nice to begin to move the items for her out of our closet as it has been filling up over the years and actually consumes quite a bit of space:) Hopefully, it won't be long now!



Tuesday, October 06, 2009

Wow…It Has Been Awhile!

I guess I should explain why I have been away from the computer for awhile. I recently left my position as Sr. Human Resources Consultant with Agnesian HealthCare after almost 10 years because I accepted a position as Associate Director – Human Resources with Moraine Park Technical College.

The change has been good for me; I felt like I needed to take on some new challenges and my new position is certainly bringing those my way. Although I love my new role, the transition has been a little difficult for me because I have high expectations for myself especially when it comes to my work, and not really knowing “what to do” has been hard. Jerry has been very supportive and reassuring, as has my new work group. However, for the past 10 years I have been accustomed to coming into the office and getting down to business and now I have had to look to others for direction. It is a humbling experience to start something new.

When I think of where I am today compared to where I was the first week it is definitely an improvement and I continue to look forward to the day when it will be second nature to me just as my former position was, but hopefully not so much that it becomes too easy.

Well…enough about me and on to the update on Jadyn. China has surprised us once again and basically skipped the September batch of referrals. The last batch of referrals was sent around 8/24/09 and we were expecting to see another batch around 9/21/09, but they have now gone on a holiday break and will not send referrals until they return. They are expected back to the office around October 9th and referrals could come any time after that. The August referrals went through March 24, 2006 and there have been rumors that March 29, 2006 will be included in the next batch and there have also been rumors that they will finish March 2006 altogether. I would be thrilled if either of these rumors ends up to be true because March 29th is the date with the largest amount of people logged in for the month of March and if they get through that the 30th and 31st do not have many people logged in at all; the 1st and 2nd of April are weekend dates and they log in minimal people on the weekends so that would allow them to move to April 3rd and 4th (our LID) pretty quickly.

We will most likely be included in the November batch, but as I type this I almost cringe to put it in writing because just when we think we can plan with some consideration we are taken back by China’s next move. If we are in the November batch, we will travel in early to mid January. That will make for a chilly visit to the Great Wall, but at this point I will just be happy to finally get there and hold my daughter after nearly 5 long years in this process! On a positive note, we recently completed our third set of fingerprints for the adoption and we received notification that they are good through December 2010 so that should be the last time we have to do that wonderful process!

The boys have started the school year off well and are getting excited as things draw closer. We are getting the final touches on Jadyn’s room and on building Justin’s room downstairs. It is hard to believe that the holidays are coming in the next two months! I will be sure to post an update with the next batch of referrals – until then we hope all is well with you and yours…

Thursday, August 06, 2009

Adopting the Waiting Child...

This is a wonderful video clip that describes an option within the adoption path that may be the right path for some people to choose. Jerry and I were very frightened at first when we heard the words "special needs"; however, through much research and education we came to find that the needs many of these children have are manageable and/or correctable. Unfortunately, our agency does not have a special needs or waiting child program, so we continue to wait in line for the "non-special needs" referral that we originally sought.

If we do choose to adopt another child in the future you can be assured that that child will be one that is waiting on an agency list because we are no longer frightened of the many possible needs that we can meet.

Tuesday, August 04, 2009

TB Testing Procedures and the CDC...

The CDC is responsible for new TB testing procedures, and they are supposedly rolling them out to the various consulates around the world, with the intent to make sure children with active TB do not come into the U.S. They recently implemented these guidelines in Ethiopia in March of this year; they are now active in all China adoptions, as well.

Our understanding of this is:

If the skin test is negative then you get the child’s visa and go home. If it shows positive then a chest x-ray must be done.

If the chest x-ray is clear then you get the child’s visa and go home. If it is not clear then a “sputum test” is done, and that culture can take 8 weeks to show or not show TB.

If the culture does not show TB then you get the child’s visa and go home. If it shows TB then the child has to stay in country to be medicated. The embassy site says six months, but it could be 9 months to a year of medication; perhaps they figure the child isn’t contagious anymore at 6 months? We don’t know. We just know that they say six months.

What does this mean for families? Even if the skin test shows positive then the x-ray probably won’t delay travel as long as the x-ray is clear.

But, if the x-ray shows something then we’re stuck in country another two months. And, if the culture shows TB then our child (and, we're assuming, at least one parent) must remain in country for another six months - for a total of 8 months after adoption.

What percentage of babies will have active TB? A very very small percentage, but it is possible as China is known for having a high concentration of TB cases.

It appears that the CDC is just trying to keep children who are infectious from coming into the country, not children with latent TB. They estimate that less than 10 children a year will require the six month stay in Ethiopia.

It also appears that some agencies have started having the children in Ethiopia tested before the family travels. That way the family doesn’t get into a situation where they can’t bring their child home for 2 to 8 months. We do not know if that option is possible in China.

Realistically speaking, this is yet another stressor in an already stressful situation, but the odds are that most families will only make it to the skin test or the x-ray stage and will not have to stay for the culture or the medication phases.

Unfortunately, one family has now realized the nightmare described above - the link to their blog is below:

http://jayscruggs.livejournal.com/

There is a petition which one can sign to make their voice heard to the CDC that the implementation of these instructions is not in the best interest of these vulnerable children and should not be implemented for this population for many reasons. The link is below:

http://www.gopetition.com/petitions/build-families-not-barriers.html

Please feel free to add your name to this list so that more families do not suffer through senseless restrictions during an already stressful time.

Wednesday, July 29, 2009

Referrals and Predictions for Next Batch...

July referrals came on 7/21 and went through 3/22/06. Only a dismal two-day batch...bummer!

CCAA Status

Reviewed through:
August 31, 2007

Placed through:
March 22, 2006


Based on that, the predictions for the coming months are:





The next batch of referrals will probably arrive the week of August 17th and hopefully it will be more than two days, but I'm not holding my breath since the next two days are quite large relative to LID's. We are still very hopeful that we will see our daughter's sweet face in the next 2-3 months with travel before the end of the year. We are coming due for our third round of fingerprinting which is so much fun, but it has to be done. Jerry, Justin, and I will make that wonderful trip to downtown Milwaukee to get that completed because we have to make sure that our prints are still the same...don't you know:)

Friday, June 26, 2009

Referrals, Predictions, and Next Batch...

June referrals came on 6/19 and went through 3/20/06.

CCAA Status

Reviewed through:
June 30, 2007

Placed through:
March 20, 2006


Based on that, the predictions for the coming months are:





When will the next batch of referrals arrive?

That is a very good question and here is how Rumor Queen attempts to answer that...The last 12 referral batches arrived at 28, 35, 22, 27, 37, 36, 18, 24, 39, 32, 47, 30 days.

The average is 31 days. The shortest interval is 18 days and the longest is 47. But, the 47 was hopefully an anomaly, meaning we should probably use 39 as the longest. (Though, with the current H1N1 rules still so undefined, it’s hard to say.)

That would mean the soonest we’d expect to see them would be Tuesday, July 7 and the latest would be Tuesday, July 28.

The most likely arrival date based on time between referrals would be Monday, July 20.

The most likely arrival date for those who believe they always arrive on the first of the month would be July 1. I’m not holding my breath on that one, though.

Of course, the July 20th date isn’t even as much of a “probably close” as I think it normally is. With the current pandemic stuff going on, things are even less predictable than normal.

These When posts are about managing expectations. If we expect them to arrive around July 20th then we’d probably start seeing early rumors as early as July 9th, and we’d see possibly accurate rumors the week of July 13th.

Sunday, June 21, 2009

Happy Father's Day...

I'd like to wish my husband a Happy Father's Day! He truly is a wonderful dad to our boys and our daughter will be one lucky little girl to have him as a daddy!!! I love you, honey!

This day has also now become one of reflection for me and it goes without saying, there is a twinge of hurt wishing I could pick up that phone, just one more time...to say "hi Dad" and hear his casual and easy, "hey honey" or "hi daughter #2" in reply.

Today, I wish I could hear his voice as I remind him how much I love him and wish him a Happy Father’s Day. I hope he hears me, I hope his presence in my heart is as real as it was when he was with me in life. Something deep inside tells me there is some truth in that.

Happy Father's Day, Dad.

I love you. :)

Tuesday, June 09, 2009

One Year Without My Dad...

Today is the one year mark of my Dad's death. It has been a difficult year for our entire family; we have all missed him so much. He was such an important influence in my life growing up and I have really felt his absence at times.

My sister and I drove up by my Mom and we spent time together as a family with my brother and his family. It was a nice day and in the afternoon we met at the cemetary to say a prayer and release some balloons with personal notes we had all written. When they went up into the sky they actually formed a cross! We like to think that was Dad's way of saying that he knew we were there. Then we went out to dinner and celebrated his life with stories and memories. He left a wonderful mark on this world in the family he created with my Mom and the many lives he touched through his friendships; we are all better people for knowing him!

Here is my Dad during the time he served in the Navy; I'm very proud of him!


Here is a picture of my Dad and me on my wedding day - I love this picture!


This is a picture of my Dad and our oldest son, Justin, just after he was born. He was his first grandchild - that is one proud Grandpa!!!


This is my Dad and me at Christmas when I was 5 months pregnant with my 4th child; we were comparing belly sizes:) He gave me a run for my money!


Here is one of my favorite pictures of my Mom and Dad.


Here is my Dad with my oldest son, Justin. They loved hunting together; he taught Justin everything he knows!


Here is a picture of the last time that I saw my Dad; it was my son Justin's graduation - this was the day before he died.

Tuesday, May 26, 2009

Finally, the Referrals and Rumor Queen Projections...

The CCAA released referrals on May 21, 2009 and they went through March 14, 2006. This was actually better than expected since March 14 was such a large day (for LID's) based on the poll numbers. However, since the referrals were delayed the question remains as to whether or not June referrals will be on track to be released in the next two weeks or if we will have to wait another month for them to come out. Based on the history from the SARS pandemic, referrals should get back on track and another batch should be released in another two weeks or so.

And here are Rumor Queen's projections.....Remember, our LID is 4/4/06, so based on these projections we could see our referral in July/Aug if the future batches follow the same size as the batches which had been referred in the summer 2007. However, that is most likely not going to happen. We are still hopefull for an early fall referral (September/October).

And to end this with her standard disclaimer: As always, projections are based on the CCAA continuing to do what they have been doing. There is nothing to say they will follow their recent behavior. They could choose to do a lot less, or a lot more.



Tuesday, May 12, 2009

Our Baby Turned 7 Today...


Today, our youngest son Colin turned 7 years old. It is hard to believe that he is growing up so quickly. We had a birthday party with his friends from school and a family friend this past Saturday; the theme was Baseball. It was a fun day - there were about 10 girls and boys and we played games, ate hamburgers and hot dogs for lunch, did a craft, had cake and ice cream, and had a pinata. The kids had the most fun with the pinata! He received some very nice gifts and it turned out to be a great day!



Today, he brought monkey face cupcakes to school for his birthday treat. Last night he helped me make them which was fun for both of us. Unfortunately, I could not find the black gel that I bought last week so I had to improvise with some brown frosting for the nose and yellow and blue dots for the eyes. This made them take a little longer to decorate, but his classmates really liked them which is all that matters:)

Friday, May 01, 2009

Bad News and Possible Delays...

Below are postings from the Rumor Queen website - we hope to know more after the long holiday weekend (Chinese Holiday).

Bad News
April 29th, 2009

A few European agencies are reporting they have news that the CCAA is not sending referrals at this time due to the swine flu outbreak. They may revisit things in 20-30 days to see if the swine flu cases have leveled off.

CCAA Notice
April 30th, 2009

The CCAA has posted a notice on their site. It can be found here.

As usual, it’s a contradiction.

In one place it says, “Adoption agencies are required to counsel the adoptive parents who have received Notice of Coming to China for Adoption to postpone their trip to China for the registration procedure. “.

But then later it says that when you come you should follow “the arrangement of local registration authorities and cooperate during the entrustment of child for the harmony period and the adoption registration process“.

And then it says, “If adoptive parents feel unwell during their stay in China for the registration procedure, they shall go to the hospital for medical checkup in time and report to CCAA about relevant situation“.

So, I think they are saying, “We’d rather you didn’t come, and if you want to wait that’s fine, we’re extending the TA’s expiration by two months so feel free to wait. But, if you do decide to come anyway, follow safety instructions and by all means get to a doctor if you feel sick.”

Saturday, April 25, 2009

Too Cute!

I received an email from a friend with this video clip and I think I could watch it all day!

Enjoy!


2 Year Old Sings the Lords Prayer - The funniest videos clips are here

Wednesday, April 08, 2009

A Visit from the Tooth Fairy...


Our youngest son, Colin, lost his fourth tooth yesterday and was so excited to receive a visit from the Tooth Fairy! I told him that I recently saw a picture of the Tooth Fairy's home :) I saw the pictures posted by another adoptive mom and thought that it was so cute!
Colin asked me how the tooth fairy could fit in there; he was referring to the Tooth Fairy A.K.A. "Molinator" from the Santa Clause movies - too cute!

Here are some pictures of the Tooth Fairy's home:



A close up view...

There is a "TF" insignia above the door -


Looking through the door one can see some neat details; A bag for "TEETH", coins, toothpaste & brush,tooth-pattern wallpaper...


Looking left...



Looking right...

Saturday, April 04, 2009

3 Year LID Anniversary!!!

I saw this posted on someone else's blog and laughed so hard because I truly understood every line! I had to post it on my blog in hopes of providing a little more understanding to my friends and family who are following us on this journey -

You Might Be Adopting From China If...

~You know that I-600 & I-171 aren't highways...

~You've been expecting a baby for over 3 years...

~You understand that it's 2006 in some parts of the world...

~You've "paid for" 3 citizenships, but never brought anyone into the U.S...

~You know that waiting for China has nothing to do with Dillards or dishes...

~Your homestudy is followed by a number (i.e. #3 or #4)...

~You never know how many days next month will have...

~You know that babies come in batches...

~You've been fingerprinted three times, but never committed a crime...

~You automatically assume everyone who is expecting is having a girl...

~You own new clothing in 3 little sizes for all 4 seasons (because you don't know when or how big)...

~You look twice when you see a lady bug...

~You're more interested in what will happen in March 2006 than in March 2009...

~You know people who understand when you talk about 2 day months & 5 day months...

~Your due date hasn't changed by days, but by years...

~You know who the Rumor Queen is ... AND ... you don't know who she is...

~You know that forecast doesn't have anything to do with the weather...

~You've waited so long, they re-checked your fingerprints to see if they changed...

~Trying to understand why they're printing you again, you study your own fingerprints and wonder if fingerprints grow wrinkles...

~When you speak of "that time of month" you're talking about CCAA updates & referrals...

And finally...You might be adopting from China if you love someone you've never met with all your heart!

Friday, March 20, 2009

Spring is in the air...


It's officially the first day of spring and it feels good to think of the seasons changing and warmer weather coming. It has been a long winter with approximately 82 inches of snow to date. The boys are getting anxious for school to end and summer vacation to start. I am completing the last two classes of my bachelor's degree and am looking forward to graduation on May 16th. I started taking classes about 14 years ago, but stopped about 2 years into the program because we moved and I started a new job. I did not return to school until 2006; I figured I wasn't getting any younger and it was a good way to pass the time while we waited for our referral. I also wanted my boys to see that continuing education is very important. It has not been easy carrying 12 credits a semester while working full time, but it has been very rewarding. My only regret is that I did not finish in time for my Dad to watch me receive my diploma. I'm very happy that my Mom will be there and I know my Dad will be watching me from Heaven above.

Saturday, March 07, 2009

Projections...Continued...


Hello,

A couple of months have passed since our last post. We have been busy shoveling out of this winter and are anxiously awaiting spring!

Recently, projections were posted on the Rumor Queen site and our LID (log in date) actually appeared within the projections! It is a wonderful feeling to think that this may actually be our year!


Saturday, January 03, 2009

Latest RQ Predictions...

And here are her projections.....Remember, our LID is 4/4/06, so based on these projections we could see our referral in Apr/May if the future batches follow the same size as the batches which had been referred in the summer 2007. However, that is most likely not going to happen. We are still hopefull for a late summer/early fall referral (August to October).
And to end this with her standard disclaimer: As always, projections are based on the CCAA continuing to do what they have been doing. There is nothing to say they will follow their recent behavior. They could choose to do a lot less, or a lot more.

Thursday, January 01, 2009

January 1, 2009 Is This the Year???

Happy New Year!!!

It has been a long time since I last posted to our blog; primarily because the wait had become too painful to continually focus our attention on so we decided to work on other areas in our lives while we waited. I have returned to school to complete my degree and will be graduating in May and we have been working on projects around the house to prepare for Jadyn's arrival. This past year has also been a time of healing as my dad passed away in June and it took us all by surprise. We miss him terribly and are saddened that he will not have the opportunity to meet Jadyn. However, we believe he will certainly know who our little one is, possibly even before we do.

We are excited that my mom will now be traveling to China with us; she is very excited to be there when we meet our daughter and her granddaughter for the first time. She has been very excited about our adoption from the start and is looking forward to taking in some of the culture from her granddaughter's homeland.

The most recent referrals went through February 28, 2006 which leaves 35 LID's until they reach our date of April 4, 2006. This could take as little as 6 months or as many as 12 more months to get through depending upon how many days are referred each month. Hopefully, there will be one more batch prior to CCAA breaking for the Chinese New Year Holiday and that will help to see how the upcoming months will go. March 2006 is a very large month; however, there has apparently been some attrition due to the extended wait times, as well as, people switching to special needs adoptions. None of this necessarily means any speed up in referrals; only the coming months will tell how many more months we have to wait, but we are hopeful that 2009 will be our year!